Meet Dylan Evans: Therapist, Coffee Enthusiast & Animal Lover

In this conversation, Dylan Evans shares what inspired him to become a therapist, the experiences that shaped his approach to counselling, and what he finds most rewarding about supporting people through change. From his early experiences seeking support himself to working with people from a wide range of cultures, ages and backgrounds, Dylan reflects on the importance of connection, resilience and having someone in your corner. We also get to know the person behind the therapist, including his love of coffee, gaming and spending time with his wife, dog and two cats.

What experiences in your life influenced you to be a therapist?

When I was at school, I struggled to find mental health support that felt right for me. That experience motivated me to want to support others and also made me realise how important it is to have more diversity in the profession, including male therapists.

What do you enjoy most about being a therapist?

Having the opportunity to witness people grow, develop, and make meaningful changes through the therapeutic process. I also feel very fortunate to meet and work with people from a wide range of cultures, ages, and backgrounds, and to hear their individual stories and perspectives.

In what settings have you worked?

I have worked as a school counsellor, an employee assistance program (E.A.P.) counsellor, and in private practice. Working in E.A.P. was especially diverse in the clients and impact involved, so it was an excellent learning experience. It also taught me to work to a more solution-focused style due to the short amount of time we had together.

What fascinates you most about human functioning?

Resilience and change. I find it interesting how people can go through similar experiences but respond in very different ways. I’m also fascinated by how people can adapt, grow and develop new ways of understanding themselves, even after difficult experiences.

What are your areas of interest as a therapist?

I work with a broad range of concerns, but I have particular interests in A.D.H.D., self-compassion, mindfulness, and couples therapy.

What is the most challenging aspect of being a therapist?

One of the most challenging aspects of being a therapist is sitting alongside people through very painful experiences, particularly grief and loss. It can be emotionally impactful work, so I place a strong emphasis on self-awareness and reflection.

Can you share any particularly positive moments which you have experienced in your career?

One client stands out who initially felt very lost and would spend a lot of the session in tears. Over time, I saw them become much more confident and develop a stronger sense of who they were. Seeing that change was really rewarding.

How would you describe your personal values and vision for life?

I value honesty, determination, self-reliance and compassion. I try to approach life with openness and a willingness to keep learning and growing, and these values also shape the way I work as a therapist.

What do you personally do for enjoyment?

I’m a bit of a coffee enthusiast! I also enjoy video games and spending time with my wife, our dog, and two cats.